Okay, for about two years now my mom has pretty much been running my home. She always seems to do things better than me anyway, so I would just let her. Then it seemed the more she did the less I even wanted to do, because she was just going to come over and do it later. I felt like I reverted back to being a child, but that isn't good when you are a wife and mom of 3.
Well, no more! My mom should not have to take care of my home. I'm stepping up! I realize that my home may not be up to her standards, but that is okay. I want her to come over and hang out. You know, stop by and have a cup of coffee. Go on picnics with me and the kids. Go to Bingo with me. Not clean! I guess I want to enjoy her more and work her less. That is a good thing!
So, yesterday I did everything on my to-do list except two things. I did the dishes, the laundry, gave Josh his medicines, changed all the sheets in the house, dusted the 4 bedrooms, watered the plants in my room, and made a birthday card.
Toot-Toot!!! I did not vacuum the bedrooms or change the light bulb in Josh's room. My mom did help me by watching my kids while I went to Accountability Group, and she also did one or two loads of laundry, as well as did the dishes. I don't feel bad about that, because I didn't let the majority of the work fall on her shoulders. She is my mom, and she is likely going to help me out from time to time. I just want her to work less and enjoy life more.
Plus, I don't want my kids to look back on these days and think that I did nothing. :-) I can see Ali as a grown woman thinking, "How did my mom manage to get everything done around the house with all three of us running around? Oh yeah, she didn't. Mamook did!" Nope! I am the mom, and she is the grandma. It's time we get back to those roles. For her sake, as well as mine.